Calmly deal with psychological problems after the college entrance examination
Doctors remind candidates and parents to learn how to deal with them calmly. The peaceful college entrance examination has passed, but “Yu Wen” is hot: I am exhausted to fill in volunteers, sharpen my head and run information. Parents and candidates are generally worried.
Yesterday, the reporter learned from 102 Hospital and Dean Hospital that after the college entrance examination, worried candidates and even parents rushed to do psychological counseling every day, and some students were hospitalized, especially after the scores were announced, some students with unsatisfactory results appeared.Some psychological problems.
Candidate Zhang, who is the “who is on the way” to the losing candidate, has excellent grades, and teachers and parents have high expectations of him.
Who knows, due to nervousness, he played abnormally and only scored 490 points.
After knowing his grades, he felt gloomy all day long, and found that he was sorry for his parents, faceless teachers, classmates, and even locked himself in the room for a long time. He could not sleep well, could not eat, and felt his future was bleak.
When the parents saw that the counselling was invalid, they took him to a psychiatrist.
The doctor diagnosed that Zhang had some symptoms of early depression. In addition to psychological counseling, he needed to take some psychotropic drugs.
Zhang Shuyou, a psychological rehabilitation physician at 102 Hospital, introduced that after June 8th, the hospital’s psychological consultation will receive five or six candidates every day. Most of them will be face-to-face consultations accompanied by their parents.
Most of these candidates have had psychological problems before the test, but they still cannot be resolved after the test, especially for some students who have poor test scores, and they sigh and sigh all day long.
Expert Tips: Dr. Zhang reminded that although the college entrance examination is an important test of life, for many people, this is an opportunity to change their destiny, but it is not the only way out for one person.
Intellectual deficiencies can be replaced by non-intelligent factors such as diligence, will, and relationships.
Candidates should look at success and failure correctly, reset goals, talk to good classmates, and exercise more to change negative emotions.
Parents should be comforted, encouraged, and told their children that they will not do it this time. They can come again next time, and do less examinations on their children.
Candidate Li, who is a member of Haohan’s “Chaotic Flowers and Eyes” test, scored 565 points and passed the two-point line. Parents did not rejoice, but worry: What kind of willingness to fill in this “Central Chinese”?
As soon as I heard that there was no admissions consultation, the parents took Lee to go straight. They took a lot of information, and they were neither bold nor conservative when filling in the voluntary report.I don’t like it. I do n’t want to go outside the province. I ‘m afraid the Shanghai-Nanjing line is n’t included in the report. The whole family collects information all day long, ponders how to fill in their wishes, and is exhausted and mentally worried.
According to Zhang Shuyou, driven by the whole society’s attention to the college entrance examination and employment pressure, admission to a good university has become a “top priority” for many families.
There are quite a lot of parents who are worried about consulting for the period of time after filling in the college entrance examination every year.
Some parents want to get them to go to a prestigious school, a hot major, ask enrollment information everywhere, fill in the volunteers, or make mistakes, which creates pressure on the child. For some candidates, the parents have a lot of information to fill out the volunteers and are at a loss.Nervousness, depression and other emotions, the whole family had to come for consultation.
Expert tips: Dr. Zhang pointed out that parents’ concerns will affect children.
Therefore, parents must put their minds on the right, fill in the question of volunteering, seek truth from facts, avoid too high expectations, do not assign luck, do n’t blindly squeeze into prestigious universities regardless of the child ‘s situation, let alone because the test scores do not meet the requirements of prestigious schools.Flowing children is not as good as others; we should consider the children’s interests and hobbies. If they have the same opinions as the children, we must respect the children’s choices and discuss with the teacher. We should give appropriate guidance based on the actual situation of the child’s personality and so on.Da Lan.
If the school is locked, it is best to learn about the school’s situation through the students to prevent psychological gaps after admission.
Candidate Wang, an excellent candidate for “Music and Sadness”, scored more than 600 points, and Wang Wang and his parents were overjoyed by the results.
In order to compensate the child’s hard work in the past 12 years, his parents lifted the imprisonment for his son for the first time and gave him a large amount of money as a material reward.
With money, Xiao Wang like a flying kite, soaked in an Internet cafe during the day to play games, and stayed up at night to watch the World Cup.
One week later, the parents found that the son, who was quite young, became weak and pale.
Worried parents do not care either, neither, but had to consult a psychologist in private to discuss countermeasures.
Zhang Shuyou introduced that after the results of the college entrance examination were announced, the psychological clinics successively accepted some candidates with unknown etiology, and they generally felt panicky, tight and tired.
These patients appear too many in July and August each year, most of them are college entrance examination candidates with good test results.
Dr Zhang said this was caused by excessive relaxation.
These students are either busy with teacher Xie, meeting classmates, eating and drinking, or can’t wait to surf the Internet, watch discs, and watch TV all night.
Parents acknowledge the need for compensation, and the excessive demands placed on their children must be met, leading to a variety of physical illnesses.
Expert tips: Dr. Zhang Shuyou reminded that the body is a balanced body. Excessive tension and excessive relaxation will break the balance and cause disease.
Appropriate relaxation and rewards should be, but parents must not talk about principles, and change “relaxation” into “indulgence” and “reward” into “doting”.
Parents should guide their children to take long vacation opportunities and participate in more social activities to exercise their interpersonal and social adaptability. Candidates must not completely abandon their studies, and at the same time, they must quickly develop new interests to avoid loneliness and idleness.Exercise to ensure that the body and spirit are always full. Do not stop suddenly like a high-speed car. It will hurt a lot. Parents should be able to make their children travel and relax their bodies completely if conditions permit.